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I am 44. I am married to the love of my life. Together we have two beautiful young adults who bring me joy everyday. In 2015 we added another beautiful young adult to our house, our niece, and she has been a great joy! Secretly, I'm counting the years till grandbabies start coming; they just need to find their forever loves first.

Thursday, September 08, 2011

What God is doing in my life.....

Hey all.

I just need to talk. I am freshly amped with caffeine, so I think my fingers will keep up with my mind. However, this might become disjointed in spots, please forgive my rambling.

Have you ever done something and then when it's not this amazing, exciting new thing anymore you start to question the heck did I just do? Yes, me too. But, we pick up our boot straps and pull up our big girl panties and MARCH!

I love Florida. I really do. It is the antithesis of Wisconsin in almost every conceivable way. Oh wait, they do have cows...and roosters. This I know because a couple of streets over there is a cow pasture in the middle of a residential neighborhood. I'm thinking they were there first...? lol And there is a rooster a neighborhood or two over that crows every morning. When I have my windows open, I can hear him.

Moving here has been the hardest thing I have ever done. Some of this I may have whined to you already but, to top the list, the emotional aspect has been heart wrenching. I miss my parents so much some days I could just lay in bed, in a pool of my tears and snot, until I crust over. Thank God my parents learned how to text before we moved or I don't know what I would do. I hate sitting on the phone. I miss my friends. I miss my scrapbook Saturdays. I miss going to the drive-in. I miss card night at our house. I miss cooking in a kitchen that's big enough and having people over. I miss canning salsa with my best friend...... You don't realize how comfortable you are in your life until you have to start over from scratch for everything. Even down to the basic need of friendships. I don't need a lot of people close to me, but when you have no one.......it gets lonely. In the last month or two we have begun to forge friendships with people in our church. Not that we necessarily do things outside of church right now, but it's nice to know that there are people that are happy to see you. Really, the only thing hard after that would be the financial aspect. I don't think we have recovered yet. But BOY!!!! has my faith in God's ability to take care of me grown. Leaps and Bounds!! We are never without what we need.

I am greatful that God has placed me here, in this place, in this time. It would have taken me years to reach the faith level I have gotten to just by moving away from everything I've ever known.

The bible says that if you will give up mothers and fathers and sisters and brothers and properties for His sake, you will be blessed a hundredfold (Matt 19:29)....I am expecting that. We did not move only because we wanted to live somewhere warm. We moved because we felt like God placed us here for a reason. Couldn't tell you what it is right now. We see things developing and are excited about the possibilities. But, no matter what, we are in training for the next season of our lives and we are going to learn all that we need to know. One thing we are certain of is that we are to finish getting our kids through high school. We will not be released to move on until that has happened. They are loving Florida Virtual School so far. It's a great program. Teo actually likes school this year.

We have begun to have devotion time with our kids every night. I know that it is assumed that if you homeschool and you are Christians that you have devotions with your kids. I was never one of those "do it all right" kind of moms. There are lots of things I've fallen down on. Devotions was one of them. We noticed a really bad pattern of bad behavior coming out of our kids. God showed me that is because I neglected my first mission field. So, every night we have family prayer with prayer requests and issues we know of that we pray for others, as well as, ourselves. And we read a book out of Proverbs every night. I want to branch out from that and start adding a chapter from other books. The kids are disappointed if they only get to read once and there are all kinds of things to learn in the bible, so why not? I see the change in programming working. My kids are more pleasant to be around. They are becoming kinder to each other and they are getting the Word in them. Even if its in small doses, it will change their lives. I'm expecting great things.

I received an invitation from a gentleman at church to come and sing with his personal ministry group. He talked with both Tony and I about it and I am going to start going to practices on the 19th. He told Tony the first time he heard me sing, he knew instantly that I had to come sing with him and that God has given me a gift and I need to stop hiding it. Wow. That is humbling. Tony told him that I have been singing in church since I was 12 and he asked "And she's never done anything with it?" It floors me that this man, who performs for and with great talent, loves my voice. I honestly don't look at myself as stacking up to other people's talent even though I've been asked most of my life when I was going to start recording. Fear and insecurity have always held me back. But no more. I know that God has created my voice for His glory and for such a time as this. I think nothing has happened with my voice up till now because it wasn't the right timing. In my life and in my walk with God.

Ok. Time for me to end my rambling. I pray you have a blessed and prosperous day. That you have favor with everyone you come in contact with and you are able to touch someone in a positive way! Shine on, Cities on a Hill!!

7 comments:

Jimmie Earl said...

What a wonderful message. I can relate in part. Having lost my mate of 38 years, I had to "start over" yet live in the same place. It's hard to watch the friends (couples) you and your mate had cultivated over the years, slowly, but surely slip away from you. I am somewhat shy, so it has been a real challenge to make "new" friends. My children have been wonderful, but, they have children and lives of their own. I have relied on my church to be my "rock," and they haven't let me down!
I, too, have been singing since childhood. I consider it my only "gift" and I use it every chance I have. I sing in my church chancel choir, a men's gospel quartet, and a mixed contemporary Christian quartet. I have done community theatre and solo work too. So, Biz, go forth, use that gift that our Lord has given you. You will find the rewards are many...mostly fun and joy. Thanks for sharing your life.
On another note, being retired, I was looking for things to fill my time at home, and I discovered crocheting. I now make prayer shawl for shut-in, and others. I just completed an "evening wrap" and donated it to our local Senior Center for a fund raising silent auction. Crocheting is fun, relaxing and challenging. Even a man can do it!!
JE

Bailey said...

As hard as it is to be away from your family, it is good to hear you are finding ways to feel at home. Best wishes as you start your music ministry.

LJBrownyard said...

Biz,
This is awesome! I can relate to what you posted as I moved to TX from S. Calif in 2008 and even though I fought it - God said GO!
Like you God has blessed my husband and myself in so many ways since that move. He continues to provide though we don't have jobs yet. Our new church and pastor is fresh- exciting and on fire with Faith in God.
Thank you for sharing.

Linda Brownyard

Misty said...

maybe i should email you instead, but here i am...
i'm glad God is being faithful and more importantly (since he always is) that you have eyes to see it. i know it's hard. i know.
He is so good, biz, and i know you know that.
i can't imagine how much you miss and how much you have to learn and accept in your new place. i'm glad that so far your heart seems accepting. i'm also excited you get a chance to sing. that should be so encouraging!! i know god will use you no matter what.
take care, friend!

Deborah Kay at The Paint Splash said...

Oh my heart goes out to you. My husband was in the military then college that moved us away from home. The day of my wedding I moved 500 miles away. We never did move back but God has used us in so many ways. I actually cam by for a crochet pattern but feel well I just want to be a friend. We celebrate 40 years this Sunday. God is so good. I have 2 blogs, the Paint Splash and Not Accidentally hope you will come by. Blessings, Debbie

Kashi said...

You know what? It will get better. I did the reverse of what you did. I moved from California to Iowa 11 years ago. I was single and all alone. The first year was gut wrenchingly hard. Now I am happier than I ever thought was even possible. I met my husband here and had my daughter here and now I am definitely an Iowan. I am glad you and your family have your church. Before you know it you will be part of the community and it already sounds like people look forward to seeing you and yours. I really enjoy your creative blog. Keep your faith. Things will be great before you know it.

NanaG said...

Your testimony about how awesome God is in our daily lives was fantastic. As you have already done, we should never forget to give Him the glory. He makes all things possible, even the impossible.

I'm a native Floridian but can imagine the culture shock of moving here from Wisconsin. You'll love it.

Keep up the good work you have already begun and God will continue to prosper you. I too am a christian and you are an inspiration in this PC world we now live in.